Why must I screen?

Screening (providing me with your photo I.D. or a reference from another provider) is a simple way of me taking precautions around my safety & security. It’s mandatory, and I can ensure I will treat any information you share with me as confidential.

If I wanted to bring you a gift, what do you like?

Gifts - just like tips - are never required but deeply appreciated. I love interesting wine (namely light reds), light roast coffee, beeswax candles, earthy and woody fragrances, and flowers. For gift cards: Bota Bota (or any other local spa for that matter), and ethically-made, quality lingerie companies will do the trick. I have a special place in my heart for anyone who brings more quality leather, latex and BDSM gear into my life as well. You can find my extended wishlist at: https://www.throne.com/raevines

What if I need to cancel?

Please cancel minimum 48 hours in advance. If you cancel less than 24 hours in advance, I require a 50% cancellation fee. If you do not follow these guidelines, we will not be able to see each other again in the future. If you wish to reschedule, your deposit will be transferred if the rescheduled date is within 2 weeks of the originally scheduled date.

Is there a particular etiquette I should have in mind?

Yes. Ensuring that you arrive on time, well-groomed, and take a shower upon arrival will set us off on the right foot. Our date will officially start once you've offered the donation to me. Respect the amount of time that we've agreed upon for our date, and don't push my limits or boundaries if any do come up. I promise to do all of the same! As well, please practice mindfulness about your health and don't come if you're sick. I am quadruple-vaccinated, routinely tested, am always following health guidelines in my personal life and will be as communicative about risk levels as possible. 

When are you available?

I recommend booking at minimum a week in advance, but can occasionally do shorter notice bookings. I prefer to work during the week, but weekends are possible with notice.

What’s the deal with these play parties?

Organizing play parties is my absolute favourite part of my job. It is very much a manifestation of my personal fantasies, and on top of that, the parties have become a reoccurring gathering where friendships form and continue to grow! My goal is to create an environment that feels both very safe, and also thrilling. I want you to live something truly unique, and I keep that in mind when assembling the roster of providers. I always invite some providers who have been to parties before, and some who are brand new, just like you might be! I always include some surprises, and have the best staff working to make sure that everything goes smoothly, and that there’s someone interesting to chat with at the bar if you need a minute away from the action. Seriously, if you’ve been considering attending, please send me an email! I would be more than happy to take the time to answer your questions, and assure you about any of your worries. I hope to see you at a play party soon!